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In fact I took extra care, being hell bent as it were, to make it to Divine Mercy Sunday this year once I fully grasped the hows of it (confession and communion) to avoid any and all purgatory time until then. I’d have crawled on broken glass if need be, for that special grace. To then turn around and tell God “yea, give my lifelong sacrifices to some lukewarm soul, someone who couldn’t be bothered in life to do much or anything, to please You, and send them to heaven before me while I bake here in mini hell” is absolute bonkers. Sorry, but no.

I already give up my Sunday mornings to go to Mass when, to be honest, I’d much rather stay under the covers in bed, especially on cold and rainy days. I give plenty to charity, probably more than I should. I suck it up a lot in life (and people who read the comments section can probably tell I have a short temper so keeping quiet is a feat unto itself). I make it a point as best I can to pray the divine mercy chaplet at the 3pm hour, even if it cuts into my day, plus daily rosaries as best I can. I make too many sacrifices in this world to then give up my spiritual bank account on top of that, as if I did nothing. Purgatory does not sound appetizing to me and real life isn’t a movie, where if you answer the right question (give up your spiritual bank account) God will take pity and send both you and the other soul it would have benefitted, straight to heaven, for “doing the right thing”. Like you said, He will take it seriously and that will be that for you.

Plus we don’t know how long each transgression lasts in that horrid state, time wise. St. Lucia of Fatima was told some 18 year old girl from her village, Amelia, will be in purgatory until the end of the world. This is not some murderer we are talking about. A regular village girl, from that time, how bad could she have been to deserve that? So I can’t imagine us, with our constant temptations thanks to technology, plus human imperfections, how long we would get….

Thanks but I’ll keep my spiritual bank account all to myself. Souls in purgatory can get my prayers. Both acts work, except one I also get to keep for myself (prayers for them, and my own spiritual bank account continues to be mine).

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On your first paragraph, I believe “the gates of hell shall not prevail against it” means the opposite of what everyone thinks; heard this from one of the exorcists on YouTube. It sounds like it’s the Church doing the battering, not the other way around. And he’s right. And I love to think if it that way :)

Father Calloway is the best! Have you read his book, his semi autobiography? And I thought I had a checkered past! He does not mince words and calls it like it is. (Little background: he used to be an addict, his father was in the military and stationed in Japan, with him getting arrested a few times, listened to heavy metal, had long hair, loved ladies, the more the merrier, etc) which would explain his way of speaking out, in a no nonsense manner. Love him!

Regarding the heroic act, I can assuredly confirm absolutely not. At all. I have a spiritual rap sheet a mile long. And I’m working hard to rectify it, “stumbling” as this blog says, and most times falling flat on my face in the mud. While a pigeon drops one on my head. And someone without looking, trips over me and buries my face deeper in the mud, while a puppy comes and marks me as his territory while I’m face down. To face all that, plus the horrors of purgatory, over what? Someone who ended up there probably for doing less than me? Some lukewarm Catholic / Christian, or someone who couldn’t be bothered in life and probably wrecked havoc on earth and had some sort of deathbed conversion? I don’t think so. That’s like asking a martyr to give me his crown of martyrdom. I doubt any of them would, as they've earned that crown with their blood. Or a Saint giving up their saintly position in heaven to me. If anyone has read the horrors of purgatory, no one in their right mind would want to spend anytime in there.

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